Because of the precedent, Tang Li had to ask this question.
Qin Yansheng is different from Song Boyan.
Song Boyan has no predecessor, so her loneliness got the best response.
As for Qin Yansheng, whether he likes Wu Xuehan from the bottom of his heart, or is he just looking for a transitional product in a blank period, in Tang Li's view, it is full of uncertainty.
If there is a version 2.0 of Li Shengxia in the future, will Qin Yansheng be moved again?
"Xuehan is different from me, she is a very simple girl."
Because of simplicity, once you are hurt, it becomes difficult to get out completely.
She didn't want Wu Xuehan to follow the old path of her previous life.
"I know." Qin Yansheng did not evade Tang Li's questioning, "I understand your concerns, so before I came to see you, I double-checked my liking."
Tang Li didn't choose to believe it because of this sentence: "Xuehan and Li Shengxia are two completely different types of people, they both say that men are the most dedicated animals, because they may only like women with one style in their lives, and there are countless examples. It also confirms that.”
Leaving aside personal grudges, Tang Li also had to admit Li Shengxia's excellence.
A man who has experienced Li Shengxia is like having abalone and sea cucumber. It is natural to eat a home-cooked side dish once in a while. If you eat it every day, I am afraid that you will miss abalone and sea cucumber again.
Her friend, obviously can be a delicacy, why bother to make a plate of ordinary green vegetables against the background of the delicacies of mountains and seas?
Besides, the Qin family is not that good.
Qin Yansheng's feelings for Wu Xuehan have reached the point where she doesn't want to marry?
If not, what Wu Xuehan will face in the future is the pressure from the entire Qin family.
Qin Yansheng was silent for a few seconds before answering: "What if I told you that Li Shengxia's existence caused a certain psychological shadow on me?"
Tang Li: "..."
Seeing Tang Li's surprised look, Qin Yansheng calmed down and smiled slightly: "Although it's a bit embarrassing to admit that I have poor psychological quality...but it's true."
However, this is precisely what Tang Li could not understand.
"As far as I know, Li Shengxia did nothing to you."
At that time, the two broke off their engagement, which can be said to be quite decent.
is the best ex.
Qin Yansheng said: "But what she did to you is a household name."
He originally pursued Li Shengxia because Li Shengxia was friendly and generous.
Li Shengxia helped the waiter who almost fell at the banquet. This kind of caring behavior is very different from those rich daughters who only play the temper of the eldest lady, and also successfully attracted him.
Later, Li Shengxia confessed to him that he could not forget his first love in college, and that he was afraid that it would be unfair to him and himself. courage.
It is his cultivation as a man to get together and go away.
It wasn't until the phone recording of Li Shengxia's attempt to abduct Tang Li to go abroad came to light that he realized that the real Li Shengxia was not what she showed in front of him.
Although no one is perfect, what Li Shengxia did refreshed his understanding.
It was like a poisonous snake drilled out of the brocade clothes hanging there.
"Since then, I have always been subconsciously defensive when facing the opposite sex."
Tang Li didn't know how to react when he heard this, but he also gave advice: "In your case, you should see a psychiatrist."
Psychiatrist, of course Qin Yansheng went to see it.
The doctor told him to relax.
For a while, he often traveled with friends.
"I was skiing in Lingnan four years ago. When I met Xuehan, I found that she has not changed."
However, he also learned to act cold in front of others.
is just revealed as soon as he opens his mouth.
Tang Li also understood that Qin Yansheng and Wu Xuehan were old acquaintances, and he knew that Wu Xuehan's simplicity was not a disguise. This simplicity never gave him a sense of oppression and made him feel very relaxed. Over time, he would inevitably want to keep this happy mood. .
Tang Li doesn't think this is love.
"In my opinion, you just like the undefense that Xuehan brings to you."
"Yes." Qin Yansheng nodded, and added: "So I spent several years to identify this kind of like."
Now he still wants to keep a distance when he sees the opposite sex.
The exception is only in front of Wu Xuehan.
The psychiatrist learned of his condition two years ago and has since ended his treatment.
The doctor believed that he was only born to pursue perfection than ordinary people. The other side exposed by Li Shengxia made him doubt his own judgment, and the appearance of Wu Xuehan indicated that he was not hopeless.
The doctor's suggestion at that time was to let him try to associate with Wu Xuehan.
Eliminates his grievances against women with a new relationship.
However, he did not do that.
Concerned that the relationship between Wu Xuehan and Tang Li is one aspect.
More importantly, he had a different feeling for Wu Xuehan at that time.
The pursuit of self-interest, which will be known to the woman in the future, may be a crack that cannot be repaired in a lifetime.
He himself fell into trouble with Li Shengxia, and did not want to become another Li Shengxia.
"These words, you should tell Xuehan yourself."
Even close friends do not have the right to choose a mate for each other.
Tang Li was also unwilling to be the microphone.
The face-to-face communication between the parties is far more reliable than the third-party communication.
answered her with a sigh from Qin Yansheng.
"It's not that I haven't spoken out, but Xuehan told me that her ideal husband is still in elementary school. She is now making money by filming well, just to pick up her husband from school at the gate of the university ten years later."
Tang Li: "..."
Qin Yansheng is considered a golden bachelor in the circle, but now he has to admit a fact: Wu Xuehan thinks he is old.
He invited Wu Xuehan to dinner. In order to show his gentlemanly demeanor, he specially gave the steak he had cut to the other party. Wu Xuehan held the knife and fork, looked at the steak, looked at him again, and sighed from the bottom of his heart: "When I was a child, my dad often helped me too. cut things."
He at that time: "..."
"She also revealed to me that she invested in building a nunnery in her hometown, and she will go back to be a teacher when there is no filming in the future."
Qin Yansheng said again: "It is said that one of her alumni is a monk. She has only been able to work for two years. After deducting five insurances and one housing allowance, her monthly salary is still about 20,000 yuan. For the host level, the monthly income of 40,000 to 50,000 yuan is not a problem."
Tang Li: "...So she's moved?"
"Yes." Qin Yan sighed.
This is also the purpose of his approach to Tang Li.
"Xuehan said that you are her idol, so I want you to persuade her."
Being an improper nun is Wu Xuehan's own freedom.
Tang Li didn't know what he could persuade.
Qin Yansheng: "I hope you can tell her more about life after marriage."
In the process of getting along with Wu Xuehan, he more or less noticed that the girl was a little afraid of marriage, so he opened his mouth and asked Xiao Xianrou to be a nun.
In the end, it’s just an escape mentality.
greeted Tang Li's questioning gaze, and he said again: "Because, I plan to formally pursue Xuehan."