I'm not sure I'd be able to move carelessly on such a heavy subject.
The other question is, what do you want me to do?
"Mm, it's not fair to answer a question with a question, that it is.
There is no lack of ways to deal with it.
It was a matter that had to be handled carefully, but there was no need to be so uptight.
Stay calm and get down to business to decide what to do.
It's not just the current company.
It is not only the current company, but also the previous company where troubles are an everyday occurrence.
Your experience with trouble is not only above average, but also heartburning.
It's not a good idea for me to go off on my own. It's easier to listen to the person in charge.
That's true, that it is.
If you stumble over one problem, the problems will pile up in no time.
So I have a way to deal with it.
I'm in a bit of a bind and I don't know what to do, that I'm honestly not sure what to do.
I see.
The sooner you get rid of this victory, the better.
The longer it takes to get behind, the less you can get rid of it.
It's true that it's a tricky problem and difficult to deal with as Minami says, but it's not without a way out.
That's right, we need to figure out the problem first. Well, when I say problems, it's not so much the mental state of Katsura, but rather the direction of his thinking that needs to be changed.
Up until now, it seems that the South could not change its behavior because of the fear that a sudden change of movement would change things for the worse.
Well, there are many such cases if you move with only one person's point of view.
What we need in such cases is a third person's point of view.
What you thought was a bad idea in such a case may turn out to be okay in the eyes of others.
Is it the direction of your thinking, that?
Yeah, it's often said that if you believe it has to be this way, human beings don't see the value of efficient and effective methods, no matter how successful they are guaranteed to be. It's like saying that the only seasoning for a fried egg is soy sauce, although this is an extreme case. Salt and pepper, mayonnaise, and ketchup. There are all kinds of flavors, and yet they assume that anything other than soy sauce will not be bad, but not better than soy sauce.
Sip your coffee that is cold, adding that you didn't even try.
So is the state of victory.
You know that you are needed, but you can't shake the view that you are not worthy.
You can't even be absolutely sure.
As long as this point is not addressed, it will be difficult for Katsu to develop his autonomy.
"Katsu's self-esteem is extremely low. It was so low that he could not agree with the third party's opinion. It's better that he hasn't gone to the point of self-sacrifice, but the situation is still bad. Let them work on it and set their own goals. I guess that's the landing point.
Katsu's behavioral principles were quickly distorted from the breakdown of relationships, such as a broken heart or being abandoned by his parents.
The assumption that if something failed, he would be discarded, and his assessment of his own worth plummeted.
It's called self-doubt.
Fear of loneliness and anxiety if not connected to others.
If you don't walk behind the other person all the time and follow like a duckling, you will be restless.
Therefore, you always seek the other person's face.
The behavior of consoling Hokumiya at the leisure facility was a response that you could only make because you had experienced it so to speak.
You can act.
But he lacked independence.
I'm just trying to get by with Minami's actions.
If we are to improve it, we must first get them to change their self-evaluation.
I know what the leader says, that I would have done it if I could, that I would.
It's easy to say, but it's always hard to make it happen.
You'll be able to find out more about what you can do.
You can do a lot more than you think you can do, and I'll show you what you can do in the future.
There are several steps we can take. The orthodox one is to maintain the status quo. It depends on your actions, but it's more or less a matter of what you do. It's partly for the sake of taking a wait and see. Well, the interference will be minimal, so it might grow and improve, but there's a risk of it getting worse.
The other is for us to intervene to help determine his path. I'm not very comfortable with this, but it's one of the quickest ways to do it. Our opinion will dictate how you live. That's how Masaru will live. It may sound extreme, but from what Minami said, you can live with that schedule.
"You think I'd let you do that?
I don't think so, just think of it as a last resort if you want to do something. The first one, or at worst, it could be a "let it happen" policy.
I'm going to consult with my leader to make sure that doesn't happen, that I don't?
I can see that Minami is getting irritated with me for not offering a good idea for improvement.
I don't mean to joke around either.
I'm offering you options that allow you to think and act seriously about your victory.
Those two were just two actions that I didn't want to take.
But things are not absolute.
The worst will always follow.
There's a big difference between not expecting it and assuming it.
So I said what I thought I would.
"I know, but there's a small danger of ignoring the possibility of that happening, you know the problem here?
"...... I know, that I do.
The South is smart .
You've thought about what I said since I made you dependent on me.
Still, you understand that those two things I just mentioned are not a solution, so you keep going around in circles to maintain the status quo.
You can't do it by yourself and you've been in limbo for a thousand days.
The biggest problem with this issue is that Katsu is not willing to change.
Or, more precisely, he may have been convinced that he could not change.
It takes work to change.
And it's not ordinary.
To change is to break your cherished values.
It changes the foundations that have formed your existence.
Only the person in question can understand the anxiety and fear of this.
It is obvious that a third party can point out the ineffectiveness of this.
You can keep piling it up and saying it, or you can say.
"South, let me see if I can get one thing straight.
"What is it?
You may want to consider a radical change with a powerful drug.
The more we talk, the more troublesome the problem becomes.
It's a topic that you don't want to get involved in unless you have the desire to do something about it, but me and South are the ones who have the desire to do something about it.
That's why we're relatively agile in our movements.
So I'm going to talk about a topic that may be a good remedy for you.
The topic might be a bit of a red herring, but for some reason, Minami seemed to have gagged as if the juice she was drinking had gotten into her trachea, and after a few moments, she said, "What are you talking about, that is.
"What are you talking about, that?
"No, you said so yourself.
I've had the classic reaction of wanting to gag at the earliest.
I would go out of my way to tease you if this was alcohol or something, but unfortunately, I'm drinking coffee.
The caffeine turns my brain into a moderately aroused, rather than intoxicated, place.
In addition, it's been a long time since you entered the cafe.
The shopkeeper's eyes are getting suspicious, so I need to think more clearly.
Okay, South.
"Hey, what is it?
"Go ahead and drop your win. That's the solution.
Go to ......!"?
Daring to ignore such a look, I throw more bombs at Minami.
Minami received it and took some time to recognize my words with a poke-poke-poke-tongue, and then her face turned bright red.
Again, a classic reaction, I thought.
No, I think the fastest way to do that is to get you and Katsu together.
The more I hear about it, the more I don't think it's the best way to solve this problem.
I'm sure that Kitamiya also has feelings for Katsu, but I don't know if it's as the opposite s*x or not.
But Minami's reaction is blatant.
As far as Katsu is concerned, she may be reluctant to talk about this kind of thing, but Minami seems to have a chance.
In addition, if you succeed, there is a high possibility that you will support Katsu in the form of a lover and change your mind.
How do you come to such a conclusion? Let me tell you a serious story.
"No, you're a bit of a lark. You're so sticky, what's the point now? ...... Well, we'll talk about that later.
For a moment, he takes a dig at her as an amateur in love, but then he realizes that Katsura is the first person that Minami is in love with in real life.
I'm not sure if it's the same thing in real life or not, but I'm not sure if it's the same thing in real life.
It's so new, I thought, and laughed, hiding my mouth with my coffee cup.
The reason is that if you want to be needed by others, why don't you just straighten out your favor with the South, right?
If Minami is in love with you since high school, it's been two or three years.
If they become lovers, you'll be able to change your mind.
And Minami will be happy too.
You're going to be able to get the most out of your time with the help of a good friend.
However, that thought quickly faded into the distance.
"Well, uh,
Who the hell is this guy.
For a moment, the woman in front of me did not recognize her as Minami.
Her cheeks were red, her usual joking smile was gone, and the girl in love was right in front of her, trying to summon courage despite her shame.
The gesture of pecking each other's index fingers, wondering whether to say or not.
I think it's possible, that it's a leader, don't you think?
The usual threatening tone of voice is so insecure that Minami must be unsure of herself as she asks me about it, as if it's a tricky question.
I thought it was the best way to be efficient, but I was wondering for a moment how I should respond to Minami's willingness to talk.
I think it's the best thing I know.
At least the south is more likely than the north palace, if we're going to represent it as a lowly horse.
"Yes, that it is. Is that so?
Hearing my affirmation, Minami laughs even happier.
I'm not saying that showing that smile to Katsura would be a blow.
Well, that's your problem as far as emotions go. I can't tell you to do it. I'll make the insurance policy on my end.
I waved my hand in front of him and told him to come back to reality and put his hands on his cheeks to bring back Minami, who began to grin.
She gasped and her expression changed to her usual expression.
"Insurance?
He listens to me as if nothing happened.
Yeah.
I'm going to pretend that I didn't see the change in your expression earlier, and I'm going to tell you what I had in mind.
When it comes to victory, it's clear that you don't know what to do. In short, there is no dream or goal, and you are clinging to what is right in front of you. Then just extend their lives until they have a dream or goal in mind.
Nowadays, the story of not having something to do is everywhere.
But .
I can't do it because I don't have money.
I can't do it because I don't have the talent.
I don't know how to do it in the first place.
There are various reasons for not doing it, but many people do not know what they want to do before that.
They want to make money, but they do not know what they can do to earn money or what they want to do if they do.
That's what we're talking about.
Think simply. If he's going to take care of you until you come of age, then you can lay the groundwork for you to be on your own by the time you come of age. Fortunately, he can realistically get a full-time job at our house. If he keeps this up, he'll be able to make enough money to get out of college.
Once you stand alone, you're free to do the rest.
Some say that you are responsible for yourself, but in reverse, as long as you take responsibility, you can do anything.
Once you are independent, you can go in any direction.
You can find out what you want to do in college or you can go straight to work for us, but I'll start by letting you find out what you want to do.
Fortunately, our company pays well.
If you work now, you can at least pay for college and cheap corporate housing is available.
It's a bit of a backroom job with a lot of connections, but I'd recommend it to you.
The only insurance I can provide is time.
The insurance I can provide is time. It gives Katsu some space to think.
A life of supporting someone else would be nice, but it's also nice to stop and think.
You were also a little troubled by your position at the party, but you are on the verge of solving that problem as well.
If you're worried about it and decide on your own path, I'll give you my support.
"I see. A leader is an adult after all, that he or she is.
When I told her that the best she could do was to help, Minami was impressed with my response.
You'll understand when you're older, Minami.
I smiled at her, drank the rest of my coffee and said, "The harder you work, the more mature you become.
The more you struggle, the more you realize you're growing up.
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