If there are no children, Ye Qingqing will support Lin Baiwei's divorce with both hands and feet.
But now the problem is Xiaojie.
The most hurt in divorce is actually children. The reason why many women forbear marriage is actually for the sake of children.
But Ye Qingqing doesn't agree that women are forbearing for marriage. If they can't make it, they can only give up marriage. After all, husband and wife often quarrel, and it hurts children a lot. It's better to break up.
But Lin Baiwei's situation was different. She had no relationship with her husband.
"Let me analyze it for you. It may not be very pleasant, but the onlookers are clear, maybe I can see it better than you." Ye Qingqing said with a smile.
Lin Bai nodded slightly, she really can't make up her mind now, she needs someone to give her an idea.
Ye Qingqing asked, "You don't have to get a divorce now, or you won't hesitate, right?"
"Yes, I haven't decided yet."
"The reason why you hesitated is because you were worried about Xiaojie. You were worried that divorce would hurt Xiaojie, but if you don't get divorced, you are very dissatisfied with the messy life now." Ye Qingqing continued to analyze.
Lin Bai's eyes were slightly surprised. Ye Qingqing could see through her thoughts. It was true. She was powerless to change the status quo, so she could only divorce.
"Yes, I'm very confused. I've been thinking about it for the past few days."
Ye Qingqing smiled slightly, "Since you are struggling, my suggestion is not to divorce first, anyway, you are looking for a partner, and it is not yet to the point of bankruptcy, think of a way to solve it, and not to the point of breaking up. ."
"any solution?"
"Actually, if it doesn't involve feelings, I think your husband is a more obedient partner, but you made a fatal mistake and should not agree to take over your parents-in-law, especially the mother-in-law. One mountain cannot tolerate two tigers, especially two tigresses, and even more so. An unreasonable tigress."
"puff"
Lin Baiwei couldn't help laughing, this statement was quite novel, it was the first time she heard it, but it really made sense. Now the biggest conflict between her and her mother-in-law was not because her mother-in-law didn't listen to her command and wanted to occupy the mountain as king.
Ye Qingqing continued: "Actually, it's very simple to solve your troubles~www.novel35.com~ Send your parents-in-law back to their hometown, you can come and visit occasionally in the future, but you won't need to live together. You have to be tough on this matter, even if it is five thousand yuan. College student nanny can be hired, why do you bother to spend money and get angry?"
Lin Bai hesitated slightly, "My husband will not agree."
Ye Qingqing said angrily: "Divorce if you don't agree. Your husband doesn't dare to disagree. Where can you find a better wife than you if you leave him?"
Lin Bai smiled, and suddenly she was enlightened. She was really a fan of the authorities. When Ye Qingqing woke up, she figured it out.
If the two shit-stirring sticks in the family please leave, the wife will be flat, and if she dares to disagree, she will divorce. She should have done so long ago.
Ye Qingqing thought for a while, and then said, "One more thing. I heard you say last week that your husband's salary supports his brothers and sisters in his hometown? Your husband's salary should not be low, right? He doesn't pay for the living expenses at home?"
"I don't know his income. It should be less than a million. Our family's mortgage is more than 80,000 yuan a month. He and I each pay half of it. I don't care about the rest of the money. It should be given to my parents and brothers and sisters. That's it." Lin Bai said slightly.